Embracing Your Divine Feminine

Happy International Women’s Month!  It’s wonderful that we take this time globally to reflect on the significance of women's roles in our world and recognize how far we’ve come to BE SEEN and HEARD. While I appreciate these celebratory calendar days as reminders of our progress, I believe we should honour our achievements every day.

Recently, I came across a clip of a woman discussing the role of women in today’s society. I was able to share the link however, I will share a short part of her argument

"Margot supposedly is the idea of femininity. It is an idol that no woman can achieve. She is always taller thinner. She is always blonde or wider. She’s always She is taller she is blonde or whiter. She’s always something that we are not and that idol is something that we have to choose as women not to bow down or conform to. But then we’ve had some other images of women. I believe we have people that have put on femininity as though it was a costume. And I don’t like that men are now presenting as women, but I’m not completely surprised because for a while now, women have been behaving like men. We listen to the lies of the feminist who told us that if we wanted to be powerful women we need to act like men. And somewhere along the line, we forgot what it look like to be a powerful woman…." Https://thinqmedia.com/videos/reclaiming-femininity 

If I had heard this conversation 15 to 20 years ago, I might have viewed it differently; however, today, I respect wholeheartedly what she has said. Why? Let me share a story.

For two decades, a woman navigated the corporate world. At 20, she became a sales representative in an industry dominated by male decision-makers. In her early years, the presence of a female decision-maker sparked hope, but that hope quickly faded upon interaction. Over time, this young woman adapted and channeled her masculine energy to thrive in her career and ascend the corporate ladder. She began to think, feel, and act like her male counterparts, proving she "had the guts" to succeed. Eventually, she was promoted to President of Sales & Marketing, earning praise for her assertiveness. However, her personal life transformed dramatically; she became so self-sufficient and strong that she believed she needed no one to care for her, whether it was opening doors, paying bills, or being a travel companion. Capable, determined, independent, she felt she didn’t NEED anyone. Now, looking back, she feels remorse for how she treated her former self during those 20 years.

I’ve had to learn this, and I’m still unlearning. Rewiring your brain after two decades takes time. Breaking free from a narrative that has conditioned our subconscious is challenging. I am doing my best to be mindful of my thoughts and actions shaped by a corporate mindset. Today’s world can make one feel invisible if they lack a specific title, corporate role, or financial independence. I felt this way more than 20 years ago when I began my CORPORATE JOURNEY, and again seven years ago on my MOTHERHOOD JOURNEY.

I am UN-Conditioning how I was conditioned

While pregnant with my first child, I was busy teaching classes, conducting workshops, and applying for jobs I could take on after the baby arrived. I vividly recall driving home from an ultrasound at 40 weeks, discussing potential work-from-home opportunities with my parents. My father turned to me and said, “You know you’re having a baby in two weeks, right?” This memory is both amusing and bittersweet. I enjoyed my pregnancy, but perhaps not as I should have. I encourage women today to embrace their experiences. After my son was born, the challenges of postpartum life hit me hard. I wasn’t prepared for it, nor do I think anyone could have truly prepared me. People often said a baby would change your life, but I didn’t grasp the truth of that statement until I experienced it. Just two and a half months postpartum, right before COVID hit, I attended a meeting with Walmart about Corporate Wellness. I can hardly believe it now. For what reason? I was conditioned to think I had to be productive, financially contribute, and keep pushing forward as an entrepreneur. I linked my worth to my financial contributions, believing my life wouldn’t change with my son’s arrival. I was strong, determined, self-sufficient, and capable.

The only thing I thank COVID for is forcing me to stay home

The one aspect I appreciate about the universal nightmare of 2020 was that it compelled me to stay home. During those years, my son became my saving grace. Our time together revealed so much about myself and highlighted the importance of my role as a mother. While I believed I was teaching him, he was teaching me. My creativity flourished, my love for the outdoors rekindled, culinary experiments became enjoyable, my faith strengthened, and my intuition awakened. Yet, despite these blessings, my ego felt defeated. I struggled to acknowledge that my value had never been greater. I was EVERYTHING to this one little soul—my son. As I LEARN to UNLEARN, I’ve come to recognize, accept, and honour that I hold one of the most important titles there is: that of a MOTHER. While the journey to rewire my belief that worth is tied to monetary contributions and corporate status has been challenging, I am learning to accept and embrace my divine feminine and understand its significance in raising my children.

To the world, you may BE one person, but to one person, you may BE the world. (Dr. Seuss

Looking back, I regret losing touch with my divine feminine during those 20 years of corporate ascent. Please don’t misunderstand; I’m not saying we can’t embody the divine feminine in the corporate world—we absolutely can. What we need to realize is that we should never abandon our feminine strength, abilities, determination, and worthiness. Instead, we should infuse our environments with that powerful essence. I confess that I subconsciously undervalued my current roles as a mother. It was only when I became a mother that I learned the true importance of my role. I am raising the future, and that comes with significant responsibility.

What is the divine feminine? It represents the feminine aspect of divine power that connects and binds the earth. It embodies the goddess energy within us, with figures like Isis, Aphrodite, Shakti, and Mother Mary exemplifying this energy.

How do you know if you are embodying the divine feminine? Elevated intuition and increased sensitivity are key signs of a divine feminine awakening. You begin to tune in more deeply to your inner voice, rely on your gut instincts, and make decisions guided by intuitive wisdom. Your spiritual consciousness connects with the wisdom of your soul. The divine feminine perfectly complements the divine masculine, symbolizing the yin and yang essence. The universe created us this way to ensure our species thrives.

Ways to activate your divine feminine include painting, pampering yourself, reading, walking, taking baths, shopping, practicing yoga, dancing, or simply enjoying nature. Dressing in clothes that make you feel good and feminine is one of the quickest ways to tap into this energy.

Let’s recognize where we have been, how far we’ve come, and our aspirations for the future. I am a Mom, a Daughter, a Sister, a Wife, a Friend, a Partner. I am a Woman, a Person who contributes to this world through my thoughts, emotions, and actions. Nothing has come easy for my voice to be heard, my actions to be recognized, or my thoughts to be validated. I have had to remain strong in the face of opposition, and at times, I was the opposition. I needed to realize my strength and needed to believe in the immense VALUE I bring to the table. I lean on and support women like me so that we can change the world and make a difference. Women supporting women—a community that understands, empathizes, encourages, and helps each other RISE. Let us celebrate EVERY DAY our infinite abilities, our uniqueness, and never dishonour who we are—mind, body, and spirit—to make a difference in this world. I embrace being who I AM and empower others to do the same. Let’s empower women to step into their Divine Feminine, their innate strength, and sovereignty, and celebrate our worth. Namaste